Communication and culture in organizations

A few months ago, I wrote about the need for communicating early and often and a recent article by Toni Bowers, Senior Editor, TechRepublic titled "Say what you mean, mean what you say" highlighted the sore need for clarity in these communications, even if done early and often! The readers' comments to that post, due to their specific nature were extremely illustrative, reinforcing the core message of how critical clear communications are, particularly when it comes to individuals and dishing them unpleasant news.

Less than ten days ago two of my long-time colleagues, sat me down and after some initial politeness ("you have issues rather than you have a problem") they got down to their core message "We don't believe you handle unpleasant stuff well, what do you think?" Talk about a topic for reflection! The reflection has made me particularly receptive to Toni's post and the discussion thread thereof.

Toni's core message is -

• Be direct and specific when giving feedback, particularly relating to problems
• Don't be heartless but use simple statements that preclude misinterpretation

Key points the commentators added include

• Communicate expectations up front (my early and often mantra) to avoid misunderstandings
• Don't tell the team they have a problem, when you want to communicate to a particular person - do it one-on-one
  
• Be open and interested to find out reasons for why you are where you are (ask and listen, not just talk)

As with all good advice, once stated it seems simple and self-evident. The fact that more of us don't practice it consistently only points to the need for periodic reminders. Which brings me to the whole running water and rock metaphors of many Zen koans. The Buddha said (with regard to cultivating virtues) diligent practice will work like a "... small stream being able to pierce rock if it continually flows." Alas this is true not just for virtues but for bad habits like poor or no communication, a constant stream of which can wear down the enthusiasm of even the most motivated team member.

Even one dinosaur brain manager or toxic teammate when not dealt with direct and clear communication can start a tear in the fabric of your organization's culture. Subsequent failures of communications, however small, only grow this tear till soon all we'll have left will be shreds! So whether rock or fabric, our organizational culture needs continual renewal through simple, clear and sustained communication - to grow and prosper!